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A.L's avatar

I feel like the main character trait every EIHG (that I've known) is that she has nothing to prove and that informs her whole way of being. Her place in this world as a person of consequence was preordained, she's a legacy, and though she wears this mantle lightly, it mostly inures her to the grubby, unglamorous labor of figuring it out most of us constantly perform. There's a lightness because of it one simply can't buy. And, sometimes I think she's a fascinating person (and as you said, muse-like!) to be around because it frees up her thoughts for so many other amazing things. Wouldn't we would all secretly or not so secretly like to be as unburdened by our own self consciousness as she is?

Amazing post!

tariro makoni's avatar

YES YES YES — exactly (!!!) on having absolutely nothing to prove and existing in this form of grounded weightlessness that creates SPACIOUSNESS for her beingness to fully emerge in all (sometimes contradictory)ways.. without shame or judgement or any need to restrict. It’s so amazing. You’ve nailed it, I am obsessed with everything you’ve said❤️

Alison Zamora's avatar

This would actually make a great substack post too -- the PSYCHE of the EIHG!

tariro makoni's avatar

Omg LOVE— will do this!!!!!

Lenú's avatar

Girl!!!!! 🥵🦃🍁

tariro makoni's avatar

HEHE im glad you approve ❤️

A d R's avatar

For you chic Ginori lovers- https://ebay.us/m/R1ZEpM

Your gift guide is uhmaazing!! & I will deliciously procrastinate my Tx to-do by diving into this in the a.m. 💋☕️🕵️‍♀️

tariro makoni's avatar

WOW??!!! Beyond !!!! And yes I hope so, pls take your time!!!! I wanted this to feel like you’ve just received a copy of FT x HTSI on your doorstep Saturday morning and you spend the rest of the weekend combing through at leisure❤️ intentional slowness, the luxury of all!!!!

Erika Veurink's avatar

excellent find

Kate Worley's avatar

Do you have a favorite EIHG in literature? Also, I yearn for that pinky ring, the combination of minimal yet ornate is where I prefer to live 🖤

tariro makoni's avatar

Hmmmm ok I have been told by a reader that my writing is Edith Whartonesque (😭😭😭) so I think I’d have to say Ellen Olenska!! Age of innocence?

Kate Worley's avatar

Putting Age of Innocence on my reading list! Thinking maybe Anna Karenina is a EIHG too

Kit Marlowe's avatar

I have that chocolat Alaïa bag on me rn and am so happy you find it chic (also if you buy it in Europe it's sub 3K just sayin) 💖

tariro makoni's avatar

Omg im coming this spring …… 👀👀👀👀 if I don’t find luck at H im heading here

Kit Marlowe's avatar

You want the original maison in the Marais, hmu when you come to France and I'll intro you to my guy there 🙌🏼 (also well worth visiting the Foundation next door - always something beautiful on exhibit PLUS Azzedine's preserved workroom).

tariro makoni's avatar

Omg im ALSO coming to Paris this spring I’d LOVE omg omg omg

Julie Dwyer's avatar

A+. No notes. Chef’s kiss.

Also, you should pull the trigger on the Métier bag. (Duh.) If you need emotional support, I will accompany you to the store in SoHo. 😂

tariro makoni's avatar

I’m hoping my parents (WHO HAVE BEEN SENT THIS GIFT GUIDE) will read between the lines on the yearning😂 if not…. Let’s do it together, that’s the only other way❤️

By Benchis's avatar

phenomenal and always accurate

tariro makoni's avatar

Thank you Rach ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Erika Veurink's avatar

you turned me into an MV girl...the power of EIHG x tm

tariro makoni's avatar

OMG this is simply the most natural next step for us…… however I stand by the fact that I WANT TO BUY U MV as a push present !!!!!!!! send that wishlist over queen

Jess Graves's avatar

My sabre chopsticks need ginori soy sauce cups 😍

tariro makoni's avatar

THEY ABSOLUTELY DO, I was thinking of you and our sushi day while writing ❤️

Alison Zamora's avatar

Are EIHG on IG? And if so, who are your favorite to follow?

tariro makoni's avatar

no one believes me but Morgan Stewart is an EIHG!!!!!! heavy on it!!!

Erika Veurink's avatar

soooo aligned here